Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Home Stay: Day One


Today we were supposed to go the Mchezi village for our home stay.  The bus that came to take us there would not start, so we hung out at the house for a couple of hours as they tried to fix the bus and get things ready for us to go.  They finally fixed it and we were on our way.  By the time that we got there, it was already noon. 
            On the way there, I asked the students who were sitting next to me what their greatest fear in life is.  This question sparked some really good conversation, which was really cool and I was able to gain greater insight into their life and where they come from.  This was a really cool conversation for me, because I appreciate having a real conversation instead of a bunch of small talk that doesn’t allow anyone to really get to know each other. 
            Once we got there, we were introduced to the head of the CBO named Chris.  Chris showed us around the CBO and then we sat in one of the offices of the CBO to begin introducing ourselves to him.  He then began sharing about the purpose of the CBO as well as some of the programs that they currently have going on.  Chris was a great guy, but it was kind of hard to understand everything that he was saying, so I quickly got distracted.  Also, the rain was coming, so we were kind of sitting out in some of the drizzling rain. 
Listening to Chris explain the structure and mission of the CBO.
Photo by Marie Freeman
Getting inside before the rain.
Photo by Marie Freeman
Poultry farm.
Photo by Marie Freeman 
Lunch!
Photo by Marie Freeman
Lunch of Nsima, eggs and greens.
Photo by Marie Freeman


            Before we knew it, the skies opened up and it was pouring down rain and we were soaking wet.  So we quickly ran inside and worked hard to entertain ourselves while the rain continued.  We played a bunch of different games that some of the girls knew.  Most of the games were old camp games, so they were kind of corny, but we all had a good time and it was fun to see everyone kind of come out of their shell a little bit. 
            Finally, the rain subsided, so we were able to break into our groups and talk with the different IGA’s that we were going to be assessing.  The IGA that my group was assessing was a youth group.  We were tasked with conducting a SWOT analysis for the group, but first we had to gather some information about them.  We started by asking them some key questions, such as where they got the inspiration to form the youth group.  We exchanged questions and answers in broken and hard to understand English for about one hour and then we had to get ready for our home stay. 
Interacting with prominent members of the youth group.
Photo by Marie Freeman
            Zion and I were together with Austin’s family for the home stay.  He was a middle-aged man who was married and had two children, a boy and a girl.  He walked us back to his house from the CBO and then he quickly showed us around before it got dark.  He showed us the room that we were going to sleep in and then we sat in the living room for a couple of minutes.  Zion asked if he would show us around, so we left the house and he took us around the village a little bit.  We went to the church and got to see the boys choir perform a couple of songs for us and then on the way home, we passed by their school.  By the time that we were headed back to the house, it was pitch black.  Since we were in the village, there was no electricity, to it really was pitch black and there was not an easy way to see.  However, since Austin is used to this, he paid it no mind and we walked home with no help from a light or anything.  Since it had been raining, it was really muddy and I almost slipped and fell on my butt a couple of times. 
            When we made it back to the house, dinner was ready.  We sat down in the living room and washed our hands as Austin poured hot water over them.  Dinner was very traditional nsigma with some veggies.  I have had that before, so although I didn’t love it, I didn’t mind it either.  After dinner, we chatted a little bit and read the Bible and sang a hymn before we went to bed.  The bed was simply a plywood platform with a blanket on it, so it was pretty uncomfortable, but at least we were off of the floor. 
            From my experience of the home stay so far, I have gained a new appreciation for the way that these people live.  We ate dinner in their living room, but the living room has a mud floor with mud walls and only three chairs and a small table in it.  It does not have a light and is only about ten feet square.  Also, dinner was cooked over a fire on the front porch and the bathroom is a hole in the ground.  This was a very eye opening and humbling experience for me, because Austin’s family is one of the families that has more than most.  

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